when I became the Resonner..

…Thought of becoming a great writer Someday…and then… that someday never came…

All  these years I filled soo many executive diaries that were gifted to my parents on New Years Eve… hehehe!! Then the ink washed away with time…and the paper…I can still smell it…Musty…..all fungus and moth-eaten…

So… the journey of thinking..getting lost in thoughts and …ultimately losing the thoughts themelves had begun…

But then I felt …I have lost enough…can’t afford to lose my thoughts atleast…. I have to cling to them…

And then… What’s the point???…I lose them…but they never lose me….they REVERBERATE….and go on reverberating … forever….Their echo fills my ears…it just never stops….it rings in my heart..and I just have no way out…

I realised…”They are on my trail…and so I must track them tooo”…

And then…that’s when it all started…the trail followed me as much as I followed the trail….and here’s where we met each other…and I became the RESONNER….

97 responses to “when I became the Resonner..

  1. Sritapa Mishra

    I could feel every single word. Beautifully expressed.

  2. Your writing skills inspires me to write anything that came into my mind.. I must say apka sense of humour bahat achha he sabko dhire dhire pata chalega..

  3. Nitin Bhatnagar

    Great,the endless saga!!! #💜

  4. Good to know you and your digital diary.
    Stay Blessed and Keep Writing.

  5. You Inspire me Pamela and so does your blog. So I have nominated you for the Inspiring Blogger Award. I hope you will accept it. I am attaching no rules except my appreciation. If you feel like it, please pass on the award to bloggers you find inspiring …Keep writing. Cheers!
    Difficult to believe you have ADHD… am sure things will be fine


    • Arunaji, I am honoured 🙂 Thank you so much for the Award, accepting it gives me such joy! Sure shall pass it on to other lovely bloggers.
      The ADHD thing was a “making fun of myself” stunt. Though nobody used to read my blog way back in 2010, I still used to open it everyday, in fact many times a day and pay myself my own attention 😛
      Thanks for the care, love and appreciation though!

  6. Paritosh Narayan

    Very nice ……..Rocky rocks…….isn’t it

  7. Something very special about your blog! बहुत अच्छा लगा thank you 🙂

  8. Really interesting blog Pamela. Your style of writing appears to be very much interesting. All the very best for you to keep on writing. Have a wonderful writing journey.

  9. Hello Pamela,
    Your words have a rawness and truthfulness….which is your strength and beauty. Especially loved ‘Reminiscing Rini’ …some beautiful, layered emotions which I could identify with. Keep writing…all the very best to you!

    • Thank you so much Priyan.
      I am happy that you could identify with my writings. 🙂
      Such appreciation from gifted people like u, means a lot to me.
      All d best to u too!!

  10. Your lucid style of writing is very much interesting , Pamela . The ideas , the prose , the poems – all are impressive . ( Even the ‘ Attention Dear Readers ” section !! 🙂 ! ) . I am glad I found this blog . I have started following .

    Keep up your good work.
    Shall visit more often !

    All the best !


    • Thank you so much Sir.
      I am humbled by your generosity.
      None ever noticed the ADHD section- you are the first and only one 🙂
      I am really really grateful for the love and support.
      New Year Greetings to you !

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  12. Very good write-up. I definitely love this website. Continue the good

  13. Well I must mention it first… You are Gorgeous 😉 I know girls like this compliment more than every other 😛
    Loved your about…You write in such a beautiful flow that I couldn’t take my eyes off without reading every word of it. Love your atyle of writing.
    And…you gave your diaries to your parents ? WOW ! This needs so much courage I guess 😉 I could never do that 😛
    You truly are the resonner 🙂 Love xx

  14. Really felt the resonance of inner turmoil yet never-back-down weary fighter attitude,in these posts. I might be wrong. But love the ring of frankness in your posts. 🙂

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  16. Congratulations, Resonner!

    I have nominated your blog for the Reader Appreciation Award.

    More about this nomination is at


  17. Loved your ‘about’.
    “They are on my trail…and so I must track them too”
    The idea has been written so perfectly, and your thoughts do really resonate.
    Glad to find you, and you know that, don’t you? 🙂

    • haa haa by now I have come to know this 🙂
      Now you are stuck with me dear for all life through, that you will ever write something.
      I am sorry, I am addicted to u. 😛
      never did my thoughts matter so much to me as they did today. Never before have I heard them resonate as much as today.

      • I am glad to stay stuck there! 😉 Remember me in your prayers and wishes. And I will do the same!
        I am glad you are ‘addicted’ to me. 😛 I feel honored for all your love.
        And your thoughts – well, the reason I love them is because they are pure! And lovable!
        Best wishes for all your life.

        • O my God! one more similarity! this girl doesn’t sleep 🙂
          I haven’t been glued to my laptop so much ever before- not even to chat with my husband!
          And dear you have made a special place in my prayers. yes certainly.
          Stay stuck this way. I am so delighted.

    • I always whined I have so few readers, no likes, no acknowledgements, no Follows, no nothing on my blog. 😦
      But your shower of affection today has overwhelmed me, filled the absence of all the things that my blog has missed out yet.
      Your regards are a Life time achievement for me. My blog will perhaps not complain anymore 😛

      • You are just so amazing! 🙂
        Want to know how it came? I will tell you anyways. 😉
        You wrote some feedback on my poem, I was overjoyed for sure. I came back to see yours and there was this post: To God Anonymous. Parts of it coincide, parts of it repel. (as in religion’s pov)
        The God part was unknown to me, that I later asked. And had I not have the courage to, I would have missed this fun day!

        Make sure that you know what your comments and likes have meant. I am equally glad, equally excited. 😉
        And don’t you worry, your blog has this reader now, who will always be there to annoy through words that make sense, and words that don’t. 🙂

        • Oooo what a line! “words that make sense, and words that don’t”.
          you are just so versatile, Meri Pyaari Maria! 🙂
          and how happy i would be if we annoy each other like this all through life.
          I think if our soldiers annoyed each other like this- there wouldn’t be any wars left to be fought! 😛

          • Haha right! Our soldiers, and even our governments must learn from Indo-Pak writers! 😉 I mean we are friends, so many of us, and we don’t hate each other.
            I love this new andaaz-e-mutakhib (speech) of ‘Meri Pyaari Maria’ 😉

            • Awww! wish I knew Urdu too.
              well i shall learn it from you.
              U r just too versatile like water- command over language, thoughts, and hearts 🙂

            • You’re very welcome to learn it from me, though experiences prove me to be a bad teacher! 😉
              And oh! Thank you for these so many praises! I feel humbled, and grateful! ❤

      • One thing more, you have your family to spray some lovely comments on your blog! That must be a lovely pleasure for you too. 🙂 Totally adore those comments for ammi, didi, and beti! 🙂

  18. thank you kush!!
    im so so happy!!

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    hope to see more such stunning stuff from u.

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    • Very well said indeed. But certainly it is the minority which also is applauded for being unique.
      Than you so much for the appreciation. I am elated to know people read and appreciate even today amidst their hectic lives.

  44. hey pamy u express ur thoughts so well…i always knew there was a writer in u…ur blogs r so touching…keep up d good work dear…all d best!!!

  45. hey Pamela…Thanks for leaving mark at my blog…It’s been so long I’ve last written…your lines made me think to start off again…get down on the street of words again..best wishes…& very nice going…..Farewell….(Sami)

    • Thanx…
      but it really feels great to read some great marvel of words…and experience the nerves of creativity…
      i got these vibes from ur blog..
      Best wishes to u too..
      keep blogging!

  46. Its really touching…
    do any of our friends have a faint idea how fine you can think n most importantly express it in your well versed well manipulated words..
    its really very impessive…
    Keep it up 🙂

  47. Literature never got to touch hearts until sumone visits this blog!

  48. rocky nani,
    i’ve an idea!
    why don’t you put up all the old writings you still have with you? then all would be amazed to know that their sweet PAMELA is a resonner from her birth!

  49. i m happy that u put something on this page….. well….

    i dont know what to say….
    but yeah… sure u have now started tapping the resources within u….
    its good…..
    and yeah…. waiting for ur next post eagerly….

    “Crossing Lines” or ” Crossroads” or …. dont know what it will be…

  50. This look is really good…. soothing…. do put some thing on the About page….. !!! 😀

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